life : why moms matter


Marie made Italian food from scratch : Helen made reservations

Hi Everyone -

A few weeks ago, dear Suzanne of S*HOPtalk asked me to submit an image for the Why Moms Matter project she was collaborating on with momfaves. In celebration of Mother's Day, photographers + me were to capture an image that reflected motherhood. The focus was to be on the simple things Mom's do because those are the experiences that often go unrecognized and yet are so important.

Although it has been difficult recently and I was short on time, I jumped at the opportunity. I wanted to create an image that represented both of our Moms, even though they were very different. My Mom, Marie, was quite the homemaker and a great cook. Scott's Mom, Helen, loved to read and socialize. They both shared a love for Italian food. Marie was Italian and would eat spaghetti for breakfast, while Helen simply loved the flavors. The main difference was in the source of the food. Marie would make it from scratch, while Helen would make reservations. Either way, we love it, too.

Here's the video (Suzanne's lovely image of her beautiful daughter is no. 4 and her post is here).



Thank you so much, Suzanne. I am really honored to be included in such a group of photographers. It means more than ever this year.

xo, Cindy

life : thank you


Life is short, so Be Happy.

Hi Everyone -

I just wanted to thank you very much for your warm thoughts and prayers this week. They really mean so much to us. I hope to get back to posting and visiting everyone next week. I have the digital lab to pick up again and lots of photos from the Brooklyn Botanical Garden yesterday, along with a story about a hawk and a hare.

Have a wonderful weekend!

xo, Cindy

life & loss


Lilacs for Helen, her favorite.

Hi Everyone -

I'm sorry to write this post and feel strange doing so, but Scott's Mom passed away this weekend. To say we're heartbroken is an understatement. Although Helen was elderly, she was really only having some problems walking. We never thought she would become so ill and once again are reminded how our lives can change in an instant.

Over the past few days, Charlie has been sharing stories about when he met Helen and their dating experience. At one point, he told her they shouldn't see other people. She said ok. He said if she did, it would be over and she would break his heart. Well, she never did. He's also been telling us some things that border on too much information, which is kind of funny as we squirm in our seats.

We just want to thank you for being here and for your well wishes along the way. Needless to say, we're going to be taking a break from this space. Already, the women in Charlie's building are circling their walkers to take care of him. We're going to run interference for a little while because that's our job.

We really miss you Helen, it's oh so quiet. Say hi to my Mom and don't worry about Charlie. We'll take care of him so much he'll beg us to leave him alone. Promise.

xo, Cindy

pics : roses


Day 1

Hi Everyone -

I don't know how I can be expected to be on time if Scott brings home $8.68 photogenic roses that look prettier everyday. The vase is actually a vintage pickle jar. We (I) 'borrowed' it from Helen & Charlie many years ago - they have many. That's probably why Charlie kept a 'list' of the wedding mementos I recently borrowed. For the record, they've all been returned along with a copy of the post and all of your lovely comments. He enjoyed them very much even though he's not quite sure about this thing called 'blogging'.

Charlie has been mentioning some feelings of loneliness lately and that just won't do. We hope to take him to Wave Hill on Sunday. He's celebrating his 57th wedding anniversary with Helen. After wards, we'll go see his bride. Have a happy weekend!

xo, Cindy

PS I'm really trying to keep up with all of your blogs, but I'm falling behind with my comments in light of all that is going on. I kind of feel like I'm on the edge of my seat all day long - if that makes any sense.


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giveaway : tusk & coco + kelley


Hi Everyone -

I just wanted to tell you about the Tusk giveaway over on coco + kelley through Sunday, April 26th. Please visit coco + kelley to find out the details about how you can win a Cross Body Bag from the Acapulco collection in the color of your choice. Good Luck!

xo, Cindy

digital lab : exposure & iso


ISO 200 | Aperture f/5.6 | Shutter 1/80

Hi Everyone -

As previously mentioned, I'm taking a Digital Photography course at the International Center of Photography. There are about 15 people in the class representing an interesting mix of backgrounds. Some studied film photography in college, others want to take better photos of their kids, some love to travel, and we all want to take our picture-taking to the next level. Our instructor, Keisha Scarville, is a wonderful photographer and a deliberate, thoughtful teacher.

Over the coming weeks, my plan is to share some of the things I've learned, but there's no way I can replicate the course entirely. Although the focus is on dslr cameras, there are lessons to be learned regardless of camera-type. I really hope these posts will encourage you to experiment with your own camera settings. After all, you can always hit 'reset'.


ISO 200 | Aperture f/10 | Shutter 1/60

Controlling Exposure
In class we learned that a camera is basically a light tight box that allows a controlled amount of light in when you press the shutter to create a photo or exposure. A properly exposed photo is one that coordinates the proper combination of the following variables - ISO, aperture and shutter speed. Too much light leads to over-exposure (too bright) while too little leads to under-exposure (too dark). One of the biggest challenges I face with these settings is remembering what they all do individually and together. Finding the right balance makes me kind of feel like Goldilocks.

There are four elements to consider when taking a photo and I'm going to refer to them as the Power of How to help remember the differences. I thought of this concept on the subway and hope it works for all of us.


ISO 200 | Aperture f/8.0 | Shutter 1/250

Step 1 | ISO | How is your light?

How does the light look in your environment?
Are you outdoors? Is it sunny or cloudy? Is it night time? Are you indoors?

Based on the lighting, your first step will be to set your ISO, which is how the sensor in your camera responds to light. The higher the number the more receptivity - light allowed into the camera. The ISO can be adjusted on any camera from a point & shoot to a dslr. It is the one setting you should always control even if you set it at 100, which is probably the default for most cameras. Here are some guidelines -
  • 50-200 : best in bright light, outdoors, partly cloudy
  • 400-800 : low light, late afternoon, heavy overcast, indoors
  • 1600-3200 : very little light, night time, indoors
The higher speeds do let in more light, but will sacrifice image quality resulting in grain or noise in the photo. At this point, I prefer a clear image, so I'm very conservative with my choice and always use a tripod for the higher settings. ISO is used in film photography, so it's a bit familiar. In the following weeks, I'll tell you about -

Step 2 | Aperture | How is the focus?
Do you want a shallow or long depth of field?


ISO 200 | Aperture f/7.1 | Shutter 1/200

Step 3 |Shutter Speed | How long is light allowed into the camera?
Do you want to blur or freeze motion?


ISO 200 |Aperture f/5.6 |Shutter 1/200

Step 4 | Light Meter | How is the exposure to be adjusted?
Will your photo be under or over-exposed, or just right?


ISO 200 | Aperture f/5.6 | Shutter 1/200

I would definitely encourage you to try the various automatic settings on your cameras for landscape, portrait, sports, etc. just to get used to different ways of controlling the light. Overall, there's a lot to learn and plenty of crummy photos to be taken ;). Although I'm hopeful, I don't expect to take any great photos during the course as it may take a while for the new knowledge to find a comfortable home in my brain.

Let me know if you have any questions. I'll try to answer them. If I've gotten something wrong, let me know and I'll correct it.

xo, Cindy

PS Happy Birthday to my Brother and Happy Earth Day!

Source : Keisha Scarville